First off I generally don't open up about problems to anyone. It's an emotional issue thanks to people in my past. I'm your typical guy, I like to play sports and abuse my body and joints through them. I'm not much of a drinker or into parties. My wife of 9 years, on the other hand that is all she ever wants to do. I get my say more often than not and we don't, mainly because we have three young kids. I also don't want to make myself sound like I'm perfect, I have my flaws and they aren't few and far between.
Any how, she was invited to a friends birthday party this weekend, supposed to be girls night out. Through the grapevine,(FB) I find out that they are going to a singles bar, then to a few other bars but only if they have stripper poles that they can use. My wife is a flirt while sober, once alcohol enters her system, I can't stop her sitting next to her. I will say she did cheat on me prior to getting married. Anytime I say, "No I don't want you to go" to something like that she makes me feel like a complete insecure jerk (I probably am). Am I wrong for feeling the way I do about the party or is there something to question? Am I overreacting? Do I start a fight over this or just let it go and hope for the best?
Any how, she was invited to a friends birthday party this weekend, supposed to be girls night out. Through the grapevine,(FB) I find out that they are going to a singles bar, then to a few other bars but only if they have stripper poles that they can use. My wife is a flirt while sober, once alcohol enters her system, I can't stop her sitting next to her. I will say she did cheat on me prior to getting married. Anytime I say, "No I don't want you to go" to something like that she makes me feel like a complete insecure jerk (I probably am). Am I wrong for feeling the way I do about the party or is there something to question? Am I overreacting? Do I start a fight over this or just let it go and hope for the best?
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