About 6 months ago I moved to a new city. I'm married and have two lovely children. I'm 30 and my wife is 28. We have been married for 7 years. For the last 2 1/2 years I have stayed at home with the kids while my wife has worked. Our daughter is 7 and son is 2.
I just want to know how married couples feel about their spouse going out without them? My wife has probably been out 10 times since we moved. She has established relationships stemming from work and so forth. Me on the other hand, not so such. All of my time is concentrated on the children and or my wife. My kids have never had a babysitter. My mother probably has watched my daughter a handful of times and never a sleep over. Now that I moved 3000 miles away that option is no longer available.
I want to say something to my wife but I feel like I'm in a lose lose situation. I have no friends now that I moved. I have nobody to go out with. I don't even have anybody that I can really talk to. It doesn't make it any easier not having income of some sort. Don't get me wrong, taking care of my children is as rewarding as it gets. I feel very lucky and blessed to do so. I trust my wife completely, that's not the issue. I feel like she doesn't trust me. Even though we have been together for over 10 years and I have never even chased another woman. Sorry I'm all over the place. I just want equality, lol. If there is such a thing in marriage.
I just want to know how married couples feel about their spouse going out without them? My wife has probably been out 10 times since we moved. She has established relationships stemming from work and so forth. Me on the other hand, not so such. All of my time is concentrated on the children and or my wife. My kids have never had a babysitter. My mother probably has watched my daughter a handful of times and never a sleep over. Now that I moved 3000 miles away that option is no longer available.
I want to say something to my wife but I feel like I'm in a lose lose situation. I have no friends now that I moved. I have nobody to go out with. I don't even have anybody that I can really talk to. It doesn't make it any easier not having income of some sort. Don't get me wrong, taking care of my children is as rewarding as it gets. I feel very lucky and blessed to do so. I trust my wife completely, that's not the issue. I feel like she doesn't trust me. Even though we have been together for over 10 years and I have never even chased another woman. Sorry I'm all over the place. I just want equality, lol. If there is such a thing in marriage.
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