Hi there, I'm new to the website and just needed to talk. My wife and I have been married for going on 5 years now. It's been a rough year for us both to say the least and things have taken a turn for the worse. We have a little boy who is a little under a year old and have been a little stressed due to money. Basically, to sum it up, during all these stressful times I wasn't the greatest husband. I had been going through even more on the side with my family and I would take it out on my wife for a little while. I was frustrated and childish. I never cursed, abused, or did so much as yell at my wife, I was just basically a bummer all the time and would snap about little things. We argued constantly and it wasn't going well. About 4-5 months ago, I decided to make a change and try to fix everything. I started taking a low dosage antidepressant and it worked wonders. I felt like my old self again. I was always a big optimist and very cheery, so it was nice being back to it. My wife told me it would take her time to get back into the swing of things and forgive me and I completely understood. It's been months now and she's still acting very distant with me. Very resentful and making it harder to understand. It's basically like I'm getting payback. She constantly gets frustrated with me, she rarely wants to be intimate with me, she hardly touches me,etc. I'm getting worried for my marriage now. It's to the point that when I goto bed, we just roll over and sleep. We used to hold each other and talk about our days for hours. Please help me, I love my wife very much but I don't feel the same affection back. Thank you.
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