I'm a 20 y.o guy. I have a good female friend at uni who is 20 too. In the past, before I developed feelings for her, she asked me if I would marry her. She also said her family likes me and her siblings said she has the permission to marry me. She even had a discussion about me with her mum.
We started uni last September. I didn't view her in a romantic way till the beginning of this year. Anyway, I and the girl are very close and people think we are dating. She told me to tell some people that she is my girlfriend. She sleeps on my shoulders in lectures, she sits with my every time. She holds my hand when we walk together and she texts me almost every day.
She waits for me for 9am lectures so we can go together even when I'm running late for lectures. She does not do this to any other guy among our mutual friends.
She is a pretty girl while I'm average looking but I'm very intelligent (at least, academic wise), she feels I'm very funny, and I'm very personable and she likes the fact that I am very ambitious.
Most of those signs are positive but she talks about other guys in my presence. Well, those guys are better looking than me. She stares at those guys a lot and tells me she would talk to those guys some day. This is a major friend zone pointer.
I'm on friend zone level 99, right? How do I get out of it? Asking her out might break our friendship if she does not like me that way but I value our friendship.
But then, I don't want to be this close to a girl that is not my girlfriend - it gives me a false sense of having one. I'm a guy that don't look at other girls once I like one girl so having the false thinking would be bad for me.
Please, I need advice. Thanks
We started uni last September. I didn't view her in a romantic way till the beginning of this year. Anyway, I and the girl are very close and people think we are dating. She told me to tell some people that she is my girlfriend. She sleeps on my shoulders in lectures, she sits with my every time. She holds my hand when we walk together and she texts me almost every day.
She waits for me for 9am lectures so we can go together even when I'm running late for lectures. She does not do this to any other guy among our mutual friends.
She is a pretty girl while I'm average looking but I'm very intelligent (at least, academic wise), she feels I'm very funny, and I'm very personable and she likes the fact that I am very ambitious.
Most of those signs are positive but she talks about other guys in my presence. Well, those guys are better looking than me. She stares at those guys a lot and tells me she would talk to those guys some day. This is a major friend zone pointer.
I'm on friend zone level 99, right? How do I get out of it? Asking her out might break our friendship if she does not like me that way but I value our friendship.
But then, I don't want to be this close to a girl that is not my girlfriend - it gives me a false sense of having one. I'm a guy that don't look at other girls once I like one girl so having the false thinking would be bad for me.
Please, I need advice. Thanks
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