I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. He is great in many ways, but also kind of irritating as he loves to analyse every stupid argument and can be really up and down. I am enrolled in a very intensive master's and our relationship has been a bit rocky ever since I've started here (we are ok now).
The problem is I don't particularly like his friends - they are laddish, immature, look at women as sexual objects and pretty much go out as much as possible just to get laid. They have on occasion texted my boyfriend pictures of used condoms after their sexual conquests :S. How absolutely gross. One of his friends is particularly bad: he's made several comments about my breasts, pinched my bum on a night-out (I have only been out with his friends three times in the year and a half that I have known my boyfriend- I dislike them so much). The same night he also put his hand on my thigh and asked me if I was into anal sex. I left and went to my boyfriend and apparently they exchanged a few words the next day, but I am not too sure tbh.
He is still close to them, however, I haven't seen them in over a year. He still socialises with them and he doesn't invite me to anything because apparently 'X, Y, and Z will be there and I know you aren't comfortable around them'. Seriously? They have made moves on me; it's not like I've come on to them. To make it worse on his birthday around six months ago, he didn't invite me to a night out and then for a birthday lunch the next day because his really close female friend whom he used to fancy and then she started fancying him once we got together was there and he thought I'd be uncomfortable. He did take me to meet his mum the next day, but I felt really bad because he lied and said it was only his male friends and then it turned out it was also that girl and all her friends.
He's a great guy in many ways, but he does sneak around a bit. I am pretty sure he has never cheated and he does genuinely like me, but I would think he would make me feel better about his whole male friend situation. Instead, he wants me to accept them and hang out with them :rolleyes:. He's having a house warming party soon and obviously all his stupid friends will be there and he really wants me there, but I really really don't want to hang out with people who disrespect me. My older sister really wants me to get out of this relationship, but I dont know :confused:
The problem is I don't particularly like his friends - they are laddish, immature, look at women as sexual objects and pretty much go out as much as possible just to get laid. They have on occasion texted my boyfriend pictures of used condoms after their sexual conquests :S. How absolutely gross. One of his friends is particularly bad: he's made several comments about my breasts, pinched my bum on a night-out (I have only been out with his friends three times in the year and a half that I have known my boyfriend- I dislike them so much). The same night he also put his hand on my thigh and asked me if I was into anal sex. I left and went to my boyfriend and apparently they exchanged a few words the next day, but I am not too sure tbh.
He is still close to them, however, I haven't seen them in over a year. He still socialises with them and he doesn't invite me to anything because apparently 'X, Y, and Z will be there and I know you aren't comfortable around them'. Seriously? They have made moves on me; it's not like I've come on to them. To make it worse on his birthday around six months ago, he didn't invite me to a night out and then for a birthday lunch the next day because his really close female friend whom he used to fancy and then she started fancying him once we got together was there and he thought I'd be uncomfortable. He did take me to meet his mum the next day, but I felt really bad because he lied and said it was only his male friends and then it turned out it was also that girl and all her friends.
He's a great guy in many ways, but he does sneak around a bit. I am pretty sure he has never cheated and he does genuinely like me, but I would think he would make me feel better about his whole male friend situation. Instead, he wants me to accept them and hang out with them :rolleyes:. He's having a house warming party soon and obviously all his stupid friends will be there and he really wants me there, but I really really don't want to hang out with people who disrespect me. My older sister really wants me to get out of this relationship, but I dont know :confused:
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