My husband says he hates me.

Hey So im new here all the responses are greatly appreciated. So basically me and my husband will be married 3 years in less than a month and yesterday out of nowhere he texts me and says he hates me. He says he's unhappy and doesn't know why and there is no way he can trust me again. We got married quickly after 5 months and met in the military and we were not allowed to be together but snuck around anyways. We have many great memories and many bad ones as well. Everytime something happens he brings up everything from the past. I never cheated So I dont think he should have no reason to not trust me. Oh And im from east coast and hes from west coast and he knows I wanna go back but says he cant start a good life here cause it's all what I want and I wanna move. His mom says ignore him but he goes from being lovey to rude in like seconds. I love him to death and this isnt the first time hes told me he's unhappy. I try to make excuses and say its cause hes gained 60-70 pounds.

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