at the end of my rope and dont know what to do

Hey all My partner and I had a daughter she is 2 years old and there has been no sex since we conceived my daughter but the first 9 months where due to medical reasons which I can understand. Since we had out daughter every time I try to go kiss or hug my fiancé I get pushed off or I get to kiss her forehead or her cheek. I do understand that we both work (I work full time and she works part time) that with a baby and working the time for romance is hard to find. I do all the house work and all the cooking because she keeps on complaining that she is tired. I have said about us getting a sitter so we can go out as a couple with no baby but she again refuses to do that. In the evenings when the baby goes to bed all she does is text message her friends and go on facebook (which drives me nuts) when I confront her on this she yells at me saying I don't want her to have any friends, but I and not allowed out after work for a drink with my friends. In the bed room when I do try to remind her that we are a couple and try to do think that gave us our daughter all I get in reply is "I'm tired" and "I feel sick" or now its just a flat "no". and to top at all of if my daughter wakes up in the night she comes in to our bed to sleep almost every night. 6 weeks ago she has now agreed to work on things and get me and her back to where we were, but for the last 6 weeks nothing has changed in my opinion things have gone worse. She said that things take time but should I not see an improvement by now I have now hit a wall because I feel that I am being taken for a ride by her and other women has become attractive to me again I know that I am not the type of person to cheat I almost have done but I don't think next time I will have the self control I did. I have now decided that in 3 months time when we hit 3 years of no sex and no intimacy then I will be leaving her not for any other woman just to be on my own. If you guys can give me any advice about what to do because I have no clue about what to do.

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