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I've posted several times, in other's threads, but never started my own.
So, here it is. BUT, I'll condense things a bit.
Been married 34 years, have two daughters, 25 & 20. We never fight, I refuse to fight or argue. Period. Both of us were virgins. Sex was good, when we did it, my wife just never seemed interested. I thought getting laid every 4-6 wks was about normal (didn't have anything to compare it with) for married guys. So I got rejected A LOT.
Fast forward to September 2013, last time we had sex. I was on a business trip in April 2014, In my hotel room, with nothing to do, I started searching. This is when I found TAM. I learned about the 180, and started it in June. Didn't touch, say, or accommodate her in any way, shape or form. Pretty much totally ignored her.
Our daughters were seeing the change. The younger one is getting married June 13. They told me they were figuring we would split up after the wedding. I told them, as well as everyone here, that we couldn't afford that. They suggested a weekend get-a-way. SO, I put one together, they helped.:smile2:
My wife & I went on a 3 day weekend (Memorial Day) date. I did tell her this was going to be a "honeymoon", since the last daughter is going on one in a couple weeks and the other one had one 3 years ago. I said it was our turn for another one.
On the way to our hotel, I actually did tell her what the girls said about splitting up after the wedding. I told her that I told the girls, I hadn't planned to, but I didn't know what her plans were. She said she hadn't planned to either.
After arriving at the hotel, checking in, eating supper & such, we settled in. We said ABSOLUTELY NOTHING about the previous 1 1/2 years. The bath tub was a 2 person Jacuzzi tub:grin2:. I knew it was going to be, that's why I booked that room. While she was taking a bath, I mentioned the tub was a two person one. She said "well get in, it's big enough". So I did! During, and after helping each other with our baths, it was HONEYMOON all over, all weekend.
At 34 years, we really didn't have to say anything to each other, we can pretty much read each other's minds.
I told her that, since in a couple weeks, we're going to be empty nesters, we'd just as well go ahead and like each other. She just laughed and agreed.
So that's where we are as of today. And doesn't look like it's going to change, if I'm reading her correctly.:smile2:
I've posted several times, in other's threads, but never started my own.
So, here it is. BUT, I'll condense things a bit.
Been married 34 years, have two daughters, 25 & 20. We never fight, I refuse to fight or argue. Period. Both of us were virgins. Sex was good, when we did it, my wife just never seemed interested. I thought getting laid every 4-6 wks was about normal (didn't have anything to compare it with) for married guys. So I got rejected A LOT.
Fast forward to September 2013, last time we had sex. I was on a business trip in April 2014, In my hotel room, with nothing to do, I started searching. This is when I found TAM. I learned about the 180, and started it in June. Didn't touch, say, or accommodate her in any way, shape or form. Pretty much totally ignored her.
Our daughters were seeing the change. The younger one is getting married June 13. They told me they were figuring we would split up after the wedding. I told them, as well as everyone here, that we couldn't afford that. They suggested a weekend get-a-way. SO, I put one together, they helped.:smile2:
My wife & I went on a 3 day weekend (Memorial Day) date. I did tell her this was going to be a "honeymoon", since the last daughter is going on one in a couple weeks and the other one had one 3 years ago. I said it was our turn for another one.
On the way to our hotel, I actually did tell her what the girls said about splitting up after the wedding. I told her that I told the girls, I hadn't planned to, but I didn't know what her plans were. She said she hadn't planned to either.
After arriving at the hotel, checking in, eating supper & such, we settled in. We said ABSOLUTELY NOTHING about the previous 1 1/2 years. The bath tub was a 2 person Jacuzzi tub:grin2:. I knew it was going to be, that's why I booked that room. While she was taking a bath, I mentioned the tub was a two person one. She said "well get in, it's big enough". So I did! During, and after helping each other with our baths, it was HONEYMOON all over, all weekend.
At 34 years, we really didn't have to say anything to each other, we can pretty much read each other's minds.
I told her that, since in a couple weeks, we're going to be empty nesters, we'd just as well go ahead and like each other. She just laughed and agreed.
So that's where we are as of today. And doesn't look like it's going to change, if I'm reading her correctly.:smile2:
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