So my wife has thrown down the ultimatum that we either have another baby or she leaves me! How can someone do this to some one after having one beautiful son who means more to us than anything. He is always saying "I love my family". We spend weekends doing fun family activities it brings so much joy to my life.
So my wife is bipolor (unmedicated and untreated; dragging her feet to get help after the diagnosis - it took 2 years of begging for her to finally talk to someone and get tested) and has threatened many times before to leave but always in her manic states; this time i fear she is serious. Truth is I don't want another child. She always says that its because I want to leave her and start another family which is not the truth and I've told her and reassured here this is false time and time again! I simply don't want any more children. I have a long list of reasons why I feel this way and all she can say is "well i want another" with no further reason or explanation.
I feel that she is trying to trap me into another baby and then going to leave and take me to the cleaners in court. This is even more messed up in that she is messaging another guy on facebook and was trying to get him to travel to visit while i was out of town on business! They are always flirty and talking while she sits accross from me at family meal time!
I'm just so lost. I don't want everything to fall apart around me but I don't want to give in to her demands just because.
if this does end in divorce is there any hope I could get split custody? I would fall apart without my son in my life.
So my wife is bipolor (unmedicated and untreated; dragging her feet to get help after the diagnosis - it took 2 years of begging for her to finally talk to someone and get tested) and has threatened many times before to leave but always in her manic states; this time i fear she is serious. Truth is I don't want another child. She always says that its because I want to leave her and start another family which is not the truth and I've told her and reassured here this is false time and time again! I simply don't want any more children. I have a long list of reasons why I feel this way and all she can say is "well i want another" with no further reason or explanation.
I feel that she is trying to trap me into another baby and then going to leave and take me to the cleaners in court. This is even more messed up in that she is messaging another guy on facebook and was trying to get him to travel to visit while i was out of town on business! They are always flirty and talking while she sits accross from me at family meal time!
I'm just so lost. I don't want everything to fall apart around me but I don't want to give in to her demands just because.
if this does end in divorce is there any hope I could get split custody? I would fall apart without my son in my life.
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