My husband works out of town, gone for a couple of weeks at a time. Today, I found a debit card purchase on our bank account of around $90 to an adult novelties type store in the town where he is working. We used to live in this town. I know that this place only sells 3 or 4 kinds of things - hookah stuff (husband does not smoke - ANYTHING), synthetic weed (again - husband does not smoke/drink/use), and porn/sextoys/lingerie.
There have been other little "not right" moments over the past 6 months or so. We have had a rough couple of years due to life circumstances. I don't know that he has cheated already, but I'm worried that this is where things are headed. I always felt so confident that I'd know exactly how to handle this because I've dealt with it in a previous marriage. Now it seems to be here and I don't know what the hell to do.
Do I tackle this debit card purchase head on? I don't think he can explain this away at all. I really don't.
There have been other little "not right" moments over the past 6 months or so. We have had a rough couple of years due to life circumstances. I don't know that he has cheated already, but I'm worried that this is where things are headed. I always felt so confident that I'd know exactly how to handle this because I've dealt with it in a previous marriage. Now it seems to be here and I don't know what the hell to do.
Do I tackle this debit card purchase head on? I don't think he can explain this away at all. I really don't.
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