Been married 18 years, two kids. First time poster.
My wife put our daughter on birth control pills and tried her best to hide this from me. My daughter spilled the beans by accident, so I don't really think she was worried or cared if I knew or not. I'm just kind of upset that my wife didn't discuss this or even at least inform me she made the decision.
When I found out, my wife told me it was because daughter has bad cramps etc. Mentioned nothing about her being sexually active with her boyfriend. I also know the pill is not without its own potential complications. If it was just about cramps why hide it?
Wife also mentioned that on a previous check-up she was thinking about putting her on the pill. So this was considered for 2 years and still I find out indirectly and after the fact.
Is this really something a spouse hides? How would you feel if your spouse kept you in the dark when it involved your child?
My wife put our daughter on birth control pills and tried her best to hide this from me. My daughter spilled the beans by accident, so I don't really think she was worried or cared if I knew or not. I'm just kind of upset that my wife didn't discuss this or even at least inform me she made the decision.
When I found out, my wife told me it was because daughter has bad cramps etc. Mentioned nothing about her being sexually active with her boyfriend. I also know the pill is not without its own potential complications. If it was just about cramps why hide it?
Wife also mentioned that on a previous check-up she was thinking about putting her on the pill. So this was considered for 2 years and still I find out indirectly and after the fact.
Is this really something a spouse hides? How would you feel if your spouse kept you in the dark when it involved your child?
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