So, we have been together for over 20 years. My husband has been my best friend and husband and father to to our kids. He has decided he wants to separate. Plan is to tell the kids in September and he will move out beginning of October.
I don't know where to draw the line in regards to our friendship. Things pop in my head and I want to tell him, send a text, email, whatever. They aren't always kid related. Even how is your day, these are things we've done for 20 years.
Just curious what others found worked well. I know I need to have new guidelines. This all seems like such a lonely experience, not just losing a husband but also my best friend.
I don't know where to draw the line in regards to our friendship. Things pop in my head and I want to tell him, send a text, email, whatever. They aren't always kid related. Even how is your day, these are things we've done for 20 years.
Just curious what others found worked well. I know I need to have new guidelines. This all seems like such a lonely experience, not just losing a husband but also my best friend.
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