Alright I am going to be seeing the attorney tomorrow. I have been spending the last few hours preparing. I have all the dates for birthdays, tax numbers, all legal forms. I think I am pretty solid on this part.
Now for questions.
I have a few set up already.
Here is our situation.
I am 30 years old. I have been married to her for 5. She has had a continuing EA for the last two years, despite telling me it was over. I have proof in the form of her texts from her phone. I also have a few pictures of her computer screen. One of them is talking about sending sex pics to each other.
I am a stay at home father. I cook, clean and care for our kids. One of our kids is mine from another marriage. On top of me being a stay at home father I also bring in twice as much as she does through my military disability. So not only am I the bread winner but I am also a homemaker.
She has been working at her clerk job since 2013. She makes over minimum wage. She is trying to fight to take my daughter every weekend plus fridays. Since I dont work I feel I will get enough time to be with my daughter. I am ok with this, but I am not ok with paying her for anything. I want to also have a sat or sunday once a month so I can take her to do stuff. I feel like I have been used enough, and I will not let her use our child to get money.
What is the likelihood of me paying child support even if I take her longer than 50% a week.
I also dont have an issue with helping pay for extracurricular activities, I just dont want to have to hand my soon to be ex wife money.
This also goes for alimony, what should I expect? What questions would be good to ask? How can I protect myself?
Now for questions.
I have a few set up already.
Here is our situation.
I am 30 years old. I have been married to her for 5. She has had a continuing EA for the last two years, despite telling me it was over. I have proof in the form of her texts from her phone. I also have a few pictures of her computer screen. One of them is talking about sending sex pics to each other.
I am a stay at home father. I cook, clean and care for our kids. One of our kids is mine from another marriage. On top of me being a stay at home father I also bring in twice as much as she does through my military disability. So not only am I the bread winner but I am also a homemaker.
She has been working at her clerk job since 2013. She makes over minimum wage. She is trying to fight to take my daughter every weekend plus fridays. Since I dont work I feel I will get enough time to be with my daughter. I am ok with this, but I am not ok with paying her for anything. I want to also have a sat or sunday once a month so I can take her to do stuff. I feel like I have been used enough, and I will not let her use our child to get money.
What is the likelihood of me paying child support even if I take her longer than 50% a week.
I also dont have an issue with helping pay for extracurricular activities, I just dont want to have to hand my soon to be ex wife money.
This also goes for alimony, what should I expect? What questions would be good to ask? How can I protect myself?
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