Ok so long story short-ish, My husband and I have been married for 15 years and we have 5 kids who are all coming of age to leave us.While I have been stressed and kinda sad about this I was kinda looking forward to having some time alone to work on our rocky relationship. It has been a roller coaster but I love him very much and have no intention of quitting. A while back I said to him that we should find some couple friends. we both have our own friends but none that we like to hang out with together. shortly after he started hanging out with this guy who is single and they are going to concerts and events and that is something i use to do with him but he wants to go too much and he gets annoying when he drinks s i kinda wanted to go less. So he is hanging out with this guy now. This is where it gets complicated. My husband likes to dress up in costumes. Halloween type and go out in them, he really like attention and it gets it for him.I was kinda like " whatever dude" even said in passing " dang you should be charging to show up as freddy Kruger or whoever" well apparently someone thought it was a good idea cause days after dismissing my saying that he suddenly thought that was a great idea and is now " building a business" which requires my husband to go out to concerts and events and random peoples parties and drink with them and hang out till 2 am and Hmmmmm I hate this.I want a husband , not a 20 yr old party boy.So I sit home alone every weekend while he is out partying and I get to sit and watch pictures pop up all over facebook of my husband with random drunk chicks. I have never been the jealous type in the past but considering he never had time or energy for me before but has plenty for this I am getting upset,So I talk to him. I tell him look this is not what I had in mind and this is really bothering me. His response is " I have finally found something that makes me happy and I'm not stopping" Well then.....So ok. my feeling mean nothing and basically screw me.we fight and I am upset every single time he goes off and still he is fine with it. he is spending money we dont have and that is " just part of building a business" and "he's got this" I cant say what upsets me more, that he wont stop or that he cares so little about my feelings.And maybe I am being selfish as he says but this is not what I agreed to.If i met a man now and he told me this ws his life I would not go any further into it.
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