I'm going to try to keep this as succinct as possible.
I'm married, and have been for nearly 13 years. We have one 6 year old son. We got married very young, for many of the wrong reasons. But we made it work.
About 8 months ago, I met an amazing woman. We were on vacation (me with my wife, her with her husband) and it so happens we live an hour apart. We spent only 5 or 6 hours in each other's company, but it kick started a relationship.
Fast forward to now. We've been seeing each other. We are in love. Both of our marriages are quite platonic, but what we have is deep, passionate. We are kindred spirits. Quite literally twins. The similarities between us are quite uncanny. I've only known her for a few months, but it feels like I've known her forever. We haven't had sex. We've kissed, hugged and just lay together, listening to each other breath. We are crazy about each other.
We've talked about if/how/when we leave our spouses and see if we could make "us" work. She also has a child, same age as my son. My son is the only reason I haven't left my wife yet. I know the hurt this will cause him.
I'm not looking for advice. I know most of you will tell me to let the new girl go. I'm looking for feedback.
I'm married, and have been for nearly 13 years. We have one 6 year old son. We got married very young, for many of the wrong reasons. But we made it work.
About 8 months ago, I met an amazing woman. We were on vacation (me with my wife, her with her husband) and it so happens we live an hour apart. We spent only 5 or 6 hours in each other's company, but it kick started a relationship.
Fast forward to now. We've been seeing each other. We are in love. Both of our marriages are quite platonic, but what we have is deep, passionate. We are kindred spirits. Quite literally twins. The similarities between us are quite uncanny. I've only known her for a few months, but it feels like I've known her forever. We haven't had sex. We've kissed, hugged and just lay together, listening to each other breath. We are crazy about each other.
We've talked about if/how/when we leave our spouses and see if we could make "us" work. She also has a child, same age as my son. My son is the only reason I haven't left my wife yet. I know the hurt this will cause him.
I'm not looking for advice. I know most of you will tell me to let the new girl go. I'm looking for feedback.
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