Hello everyone!
So really need some words of wisdom as I have no idea what to do.
I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and in December, we moved into our own house.
What has come apparent over the past 4 - 6 weeks is that my bf is texting this girl every day without fail. If it's not texting, it's sending pictures via Snap Chat or through Facebook.
He used to be her team leader and then she left the company to go elsewhere.
When I have mentioned to him about him texting her, every day, I said to him that it seems strange. I never speak to my friends all the time. Or if I text someone, perhaps the text conversation lasts about 3 - 4 messages each and that's it for a few weeks. He told me I was being paranoid and that it is normal.
It got to the point where he was becoming very protective of his phone and he even put a code on it. Now every time she texts, he deletes all messages.
Because he was texting all of the time, I became very curious, so I checked his phone. (I know - I shouldnt have done but it's done now) When I checked his phone, it was the morning after he went out all the previous afternoon / night with this girl and other people who he works with.
One text message that I read said that he didn't mean to make the walk back to the car awkward but deep down, he thinks they both know how the feel. He feels guilty about feeling this way and that he doesn't want to break my heart. Later on the message went on to say that recently he has not been happy but he just has to settle. There was another message where she kept asking him to go back to hers...(he didnt)
Knowing this, I felt sick inside. I do not want to be second best!!
I generally queried about him being unhappy last week - and he out right denied it!! He said he was happy.
I was talking to him about this girl again and he said that they talk about random stuff. I saw another message ( i know i know...) and he said to her that I am aware that they talk but I think it's random stuff. If I knew what they were talking about I'd kick him out.
Seriously, how am I supposed to react to this? They talk throughout the day and it's very sexual what I have read.
How do I even approach the fact that I've read the messages to him? He's also going out drinking with her and others tomorrow. I dread what other confessions will be said this time...
His mum asked him outright if something was going on - he said no. And he told me about it and seemed genuinely upset she had asked him
Any words of wisdom would be appreciated x
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