i've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now and we're really happy. Everything is perfect between us and we've never had a serious argument. However the only arguments we ever have...are over his ex girlfriend. He was with her for a year and broke up for mutual reasons however they continued to stay friends after this. In fact they were best friends and I've always been jealous of this.
At the beginning of our relationship, she threatened that she'd be able to get him back any day and posted a lot of hurtful things about me on twitter. I'd never liked her to begin with because I found her conniving and spiteful and I was always right about my judgements. To this day they're still friends and I am extremely jealous of it and I wish more than anything that I didn't feel like this. They do dofe together and have just spent the last week together when I've been sat at home. I know that's out of my hands and I should just 'get over it' but I can't. I have tried to be friends with her which lasted for about a month until she invited some strangers to my birthday party and it kicked off again. I wish I could write more about what she's done/said but just writing this is making me angry. It's got to the point where I'm psychically suffering from it, I shake with anger when I see them talking together or any pictures of them and it makes me even angrier that she's th e reason why I'm angry. I get really stressed about the situation which has led me to being on tablets to relieve the headaches and dizzy spells I get from it. She's always just there and I just need her to take a step back and give us some space because I can't deal with her. (My stress rash has flared up writing this btw)
Has anyone else been in a similar situation? What did you do? And does anyone have any advice?
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