Hi All,
I am in a long-term relationship and we have been engaged for the past 2 years (tying the knot end of this year). Wife-to-be and I have been together for the last eight years, but only started living together 3 years ago.
When we first met I was a guy who used to cheat. I think its because I was younger spent too much time with the guys. But WTB has been a patient woman and I have since grown up and reformed my ways. Plus we have a beautiful daughter now (which is part of the reason I stopped playing around. We are stable and happy overall now, but there is something that troubles me. The sex has dropped quite a lot.
I find that I get turned down quite bit and she hardly initiates anymore. She will normally initiate when she sees that a week goes by and I don't show any interest. I think maybe she feels bad that she turned me down a few times and I'm sulking. When we do have sex its great and she's multi-orgsmic. But I don't understand why she doesn't want it as often as I do nowadays.
A few years back when I used to mess around and wasn't that serious about the relationship, she used to initiate even more than I did. But over the past year or so her drive seems to have dropped.
I'm not going to go outside to search for more (too much stress and lies to maintain affair). But I am just curious if is this a stage or something. We are both in our 30's so it can't be menopause.
Thanks in advance for any feedback:confused::confused:
I am in a long-term relationship and we have been engaged for the past 2 years (tying the knot end of this year). Wife-to-be and I have been together for the last eight years, but only started living together 3 years ago.
When we first met I was a guy who used to cheat. I think its because I was younger spent too much time with the guys. But WTB has been a patient woman and I have since grown up and reformed my ways. Plus we have a beautiful daughter now (which is part of the reason I stopped playing around. We are stable and happy overall now, but there is something that troubles me. The sex has dropped quite a lot.
I find that I get turned down quite bit and she hardly initiates anymore. She will normally initiate when she sees that a week goes by and I don't show any interest. I think maybe she feels bad that she turned me down a few times and I'm sulking. When we do have sex its great and she's multi-orgsmic. But I don't understand why she doesn't want it as often as I do nowadays.
A few years back when I used to mess around and wasn't that serious about the relationship, she used to initiate even more than I did. But over the past year or so her drive seems to have dropped.
I'm not going to go outside to search for more (too much stress and lies to maintain affair). But I am just curious if is this a stage or something. We are both in our 30's so it can't be menopause.
Thanks in advance for any feedback:confused::confused:
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