I'm a single man but I met a woman on Facebook around 4 months ago. I added her as a friend since I thought she was attractive. She told me that she was married but that didn't stop me from pursuing her since it was all fun and games for me at first. Upon talking to her more, I found out that she is slightly disabled (needs crutches) and because of that disability, she has low self esteem and self worth. I don't know what I was thinking at the time but I kept pursuing her and she never set any boundaries. I told her little things like she was beautiful because I was only playing but she took it very seriously.
Her husband teaches in a different city and is only home every other weekend. She said she loves him but hates the fact that he is never home since they never spend time with each other. I offered to come visit her and take her to a movie and she agreed. We saw the movie and went back to her home and had sex. We both enjoyed it but she became really attached after that. She would start to bad talk her husband and say that she was unhappy with him. She's only been married for a year so I tried telling her to stick it out because things might get better. She started to open up to me and be more sexually suggestive when before, I was the one doing all the pushing. I never pushed her to get a divorce or end her marriage but she created this fantasy in her head where me and her are together because she thinks I love her as much as I said I did.
She gave her husband an ultimatum (which I was against) and said that he needs to move back to the city so he can be home everyday. He obviously can't just up and quit his job that easily so he was unable to do it. Now she is intent on filing divorce from him to be with me. Yes I'm single and yes I pursued her but I had no intention of having some sort of long term relationship or being her knight in shining armor. I do still feel sorry for her because of her disability and I feel bad for walking away now since I've given her a certain type of confidence that she lacked before. So what should I do? I don't want her to leave her husband and I'm starting to feel bad for destroying her marriage. Ideally, I would love for her to stay with him and remove me from the picture totally. I feel that if I shut the door on her now, he confidence will drop and she will be depressed or maybe suicidal. She has already hinted that she can't live without me and that she will never lose me. Sh e also likes to blow up my phone 50 times a day and wonders why I don't answer. If I stay around and she goes through with the divorce, I will have to somehow tell her one day that I don't love her like that and she will also be hurt. I need advice on what to do or how to convince her that she should give him another chance and forget about me.
Her husband teaches in a different city and is only home every other weekend. She said she loves him but hates the fact that he is never home since they never spend time with each other. I offered to come visit her and take her to a movie and she agreed. We saw the movie and went back to her home and had sex. We both enjoyed it but she became really attached after that. She would start to bad talk her husband and say that she was unhappy with him. She's only been married for a year so I tried telling her to stick it out because things might get better. She started to open up to me and be more sexually suggestive when before, I was the one doing all the pushing. I never pushed her to get a divorce or end her marriage but she created this fantasy in her head where me and her are together because she thinks I love her as much as I said I did.
She gave her husband an ultimatum (which I was against) and said that he needs to move back to the city so he can be home everyday. He obviously can't just up and quit his job that easily so he was unable to do it. Now she is intent on filing divorce from him to be with me. Yes I'm single and yes I pursued her but I had no intention of having some sort of long term relationship or being her knight in shining armor. I do still feel sorry for her because of her disability and I feel bad for walking away now since I've given her a certain type of confidence that she lacked before. So what should I do? I don't want her to leave her husband and I'm starting to feel bad for destroying her marriage. Ideally, I would love for her to stay with him and remove me from the picture totally. I feel that if I shut the door on her now, he confidence will drop and she will be depressed or maybe suicidal. She has already hinted that she can't live without me and that she will never lose me. Sh e also likes to blow up my phone 50 times a day and wonders why I don't answer. If I stay around and she goes through with the divorce, I will have to somehow tell her one day that I don't love her like that and she will also be hurt. I need advice on what to do or how to convince her that she should give him another chance and forget about me.
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