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husband distressed by my past?!

Hi

My married life is undergoing a lot of problems currently because of an incident from my past, before I got into a relationship with my then-boyfriend-now-husb and.
My husband and I have an age difference of 9 years. But he is a very nice guy, very good looking, helping, understanding and affectionate and I love him a lot.

But since a month, he has been acting horribly with me. Someone, sent him photos of me kissing a guy I used to know and since then he has been upset. Even my husband knew that guy because he was in our frien circle.

The thing is, before I got into my relationship with my now husband, this guy friend of ours had entered our lives.
He was a extremely handsome and a very mysterious man and I admit we had a strange connection since the day I met him.
Whenever I would meet him, I would go lost into his eyes and would find myself staring at him , even forgetting what I had to say to him.
It was he, who would start the conversation, but even he suffered from the same thing I used to suffer from.
Our eyes would meet whenever we were around.

But he had openly declared that he was not interested in marriage or relationships and his only goal was to further his career without any distractions.

He was here for a short time, maybe 1 year and just a week before he had to leave, he told me he wanted to take back some memories of mine, because he knew I liked him but never said it.

I was so insanely attracted to him and his eyes (i still remember he had really alluring light brown eyes) that I agreed to all his demands. He wanted to stay with me for a week and we did, mostly having sex most of the time.
He never let me out of his sight and for a week, I stayed in with him at his house. The day he was leaving, he kissed me many times and left.

He never appeared again.

I forgot about it and got into a relationship with my boyfriend whom I always liked and I knew he liked me too(now my husband)
We got married a year later.

Someone knew about my past experience and they sent those photos to my husband and I was forced to reveal everything about my past which infuriated my husband.

I am a submissive wife so I listened to all he had to say. My only goal is to keep him happy and feel loved.
But he now gives me the silent treatment and when we get into fights, he accuses me saying how many men I have slept with and how many I have cheated on him.

I go to bed crying every single night. I tried my best to help him get over it but he is still upset.
He is emotional and jealous and I am suffering from it.

Last week I found out I was pregnant and he accused me again that I am not as innocent as I seem and whose baby am I carrying.

It was too painful for me to hear.

I cannot leave him , but what do I do to help him get over my past?

Please help me

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