This might sound pathetic to some people but it has become a big deal with me and I don't know why. My wife has been chaning for the past few months and I have no idea how to deal with it. I'm not use to it at all because we have been married for 3 years and she never started to change at all until recently.
Orginally she use to just want to stay at home and do nothing. She never had friends growing up, never went to a party, or anything of that nature. Now she has shown interest in going to a party and wanting to go out alot more suddenly.
One of our morals were that we both decided we would never drink and her 21st birthday is coming up and she has made a new friend (which is weird for me, since I have only known her with NO friends) and they talk all the time and now her friends wants her to drink with her on her 21st birthday and suddenly my wife has changed from never drinking to wanting to try it which goes against our morals that we both have.
She said its because she had never been around it much growing up so she had a bad idea of it but my family drinks at gatherings (even though I do not) and she said that that was what got her use to drinking and wanting to try it.
Is it wrong for me to feel kind of betrayed by her completely going back and something we both agreeed on or should I accept it because its her choice and she can do what she wants.
I'm just having a hard time with all of this change because I never thought that she would change as much as she has.
Orginally she use to just want to stay at home and do nothing. She never had friends growing up, never went to a party, or anything of that nature. Now she has shown interest in going to a party and wanting to go out alot more suddenly.
One of our morals were that we both decided we would never drink and her 21st birthday is coming up and she has made a new friend (which is weird for me, since I have only known her with NO friends) and they talk all the time and now her friends wants her to drink with her on her 21st birthday and suddenly my wife has changed from never drinking to wanting to try it which goes against our morals that we both have.
She said its because she had never been around it much growing up so she had a bad idea of it but my family drinks at gatherings (even though I do not) and she said that that was what got her use to drinking and wanting to try it.
Is it wrong for me to feel kind of betrayed by her completely going back and something we both agreeed on or should I accept it because its her choice and she can do what she wants.
I'm just having a hard time with all of this change because I never thought that she would change as much as she has.
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