Ok, I am new to posting and just joined. I have read the posts for along time and can appreciate the honesty that is shared here. So, that being said, please do not hold back on the honesty without being nasty.
I have been married for almost 4 years and we have 2 D's. My H is a great man and works very hard. I love him with all my heart but am not sure what is going on with our marriage. We have sex a lot and I love the closeness of us together. This is not my problem. He seems distant most days and only affectionate and touchy feely when he wants to have sex. When we do have sex it is not satisfying. I tried to talk to him about this several times but he is not the kind of man that likes to talk about sex openly or any aspect of it unless it is at an awkward time, like during the act. He will randomly ask what is something I fantasize about and wouldn't want to tell him because I may be uncomfortable or worried about his reaction. Its nice he wants to know, just not at this moment!! He is always willing to receive oral sex but rarely gives it and when he does it is not like you would expect, a light gentle touch. It is like a gamer with a joystick!! I have not had an orgasm in mont hs unless I take things in my own hands. I always try to make sure he enjoys himself and that I am doing what he would like. I feel as though he doesn't care if it is mutual. He gets very defensive when I tell him I enjoyed the sex but did not O and sex is obsolete for a few days or weeks and then he seems very timid or over willing to try(joystick issue again). I am not sure if trying to guide him would go over well since he is so hesitant to talk about this kind of stuff or not. I am finding I want sex with him less and less for the end result. I have had trouble becoming aroused for a long time now because of this stuff. Any help would be super appreciated!!
I have been married for almost 4 years and we have 2 D's. My H is a great man and works very hard. I love him with all my heart but am not sure what is going on with our marriage. We have sex a lot and I love the closeness of us together. This is not my problem. He seems distant most days and only affectionate and touchy feely when he wants to have sex. When we do have sex it is not satisfying. I tried to talk to him about this several times but he is not the kind of man that likes to talk about sex openly or any aspect of it unless it is at an awkward time, like during the act. He will randomly ask what is something I fantasize about and wouldn't want to tell him because I may be uncomfortable or worried about his reaction. Its nice he wants to know, just not at this moment!! He is always willing to receive oral sex but rarely gives it and when he does it is not like you would expect, a light gentle touch. It is like a gamer with a joystick!! I have not had an orgasm in mont hs unless I take things in my own hands. I always try to make sure he enjoys himself and that I am doing what he would like. I feel as though he doesn't care if it is mutual. He gets very defensive when I tell him I enjoyed the sex but did not O and sex is obsolete for a few days or weeks and then he seems very timid or over willing to try(joystick issue again). I am not sure if trying to guide him would go over well since he is so hesitant to talk about this kind of stuff or not. I am finding I want sex with him less and less for the end result. I have had trouble becoming aroused for a long time now because of this stuff. Any help would be super appreciated!!
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