Sorry this will be long. To start out my wife and I have been married for 3 years together for 4. I was married before and she wasn't. We both brought kids into the relationship, I had 3 she had 1. Everything was awesome the first 6 months and I was blown away with her until the exes came back in the picture. They wanted visitations which were fine but my wife now would always scrutinize my exes visitation. If she couldn't get them by 6:00 on Friday my wife now wanted her to forfeit her visitation. At this point my ex had stage 4 cervical cancer so I would allow her to get the kids even if she didn't show up at 6 on the dot cause I understood she had chemo and stuff to attend. That led to me and my wife fighting every visitation. Fast forward to now. My ex wife passed away 2 years ago and we still fight over her. My wife has anger and control issues even with the kids. She has told me that she couldn't stand to be around 2 of my kids from my first marriag e and how they can't do anything right. So naturally I protect them and we fight. It's got to the pint to where we fight almost everyday over petty stuff. We wer even going to get a divorce a month ago but decided to work it out. As soon as we talked about separating she got an apartment lined, separate checking account and contacted an attorney in the same day. Blaming me for everything. We now have a1 & 2 yo together and expecting another in may. I have a job but she wants to tell me when to go in and what time I need to be home. Throughout the years she has dictated my decisions indirectly. If I make a decision she doesn't like its a fight. She's called me names, threw stuff at me and criticized everything I do for our entire relationship. Now she's trying to control my schedule at work and home. She says she's never wrong and I'll never win an argument with her. She also has poor relationships with her family. They can't stand to be around her. It's almost like she w ants to fight. I'm trying everything I can to keep her calm and happy but it's taking a toll on me. I'm nervous at work cause I may not be home on time and I'm on eggshells around her and so are the kids. Is this hormones or does she have a lot of issues that I can't fix?
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