In February my husband came to me with the "we have to talk". He said he has been unhappy for 5 years and I have turned him into something he hates. Sounds lovely right. He continued for months being so verbally cruel that he was blind to it. He has wanted a separation since then. He says there is no hope for us. He can't see me changing. He says I don't say "please" and "thank you" and show him any signs of appreciation. I think he blocked out hearing that a long time ago for him to say that. We saw a mediator once where I cried my eyes out the whole time uncontrollably, especially when she said we have to tell the children after things are settled and we agree on things. To go through with a legal separation will cost $4000. That's half our emergency savings. In the meantime he still lives here, we have no "personal" communication. There is no hostility and it seems like everything is great. It's not. He wants to leave. He wants to set up a kids visit s chedule where I leave the house so he can stay here to be with the kids a few days a week. He is just so eager to leave, at the same time he thinks we are still going to have family time like going to the park, out to eat or family trips. I don't know if he fully grasps the reality of the situation. I am so confused.
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