I really need some help and I'm too embarrassed to tell anyone I know in real life because well it's embarrassing.
I've been seeing this guy for two months now and it's been going great. We've had a talk that we are exclusive (but not "in a relationship") as he keeps saying how brilliant it's going to America because he's not 'tied down' to a girl. Which hurts me as we spend like 3 days together a week and he's a busy guy. But I thought that was down to him before a boy and not wanting to commit.
Then yesterday after we had sex I went to the bathroom to freshen up and went to throw a tissue away and the bin was full of condoms....used (and some covered in blood so probably with a girl on her period) please note I wasn't looking I just saw some blood in the bin and thought WHAT.
So I didn't want to confront him and instead asked him if he has been sleeping with anyone else and he promised me that he hasn't....but whose condoms would they be? His housemate has been on holiday for ages and no one else is sharing the flat with him. The wrappers were for his brand too...and we haven't had sex in a week so they aren't from us (plus there were loads!)
He's promised me he isn't sleeping around and that I should trust him....but I just can't. should I end it? even now, he's at a friends house and all I can think is he's sleeping with another girl tonight having shagged me a few hours ago.
I love him and the thought of losing him would hurt, but confronting him mught make him dump me?
Help.
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