OK so my wife has recently turned 40 and her libido has been in high gear. Some on this forum have commented that sudden spikes like this can often be signs of emotional or physical affairs. Where she works has many men (women too). She typically does not go out and there has never been any reason to suspect anything.
Last week she went to a work-related party for s high-ranking executive that was leaving. For social and political reasons I encouraged her to go. She came home suprisingly early indicating that there was an ex-employee (also pretty high-ranking) that was still friend with many of her colleagues. According to her he was making blatant advances (being overtly touchy) and even suggested that they get a room. She is typically a friendly person and perhaps he misread the signals. The CEO had reserved several rooms for people to stay so they could have a good time and be safe. The guy got so forward that she walked out and grabbed a cab to come home.
On the one hand I am glad that she told me about this and she left to avoid a possible problem. I have to be realistic and accept the fact that she may have been avoiding "temptation" rather than a situation that was "dangerous" as she suggested (she said she was afraid he might rape her). Since the guy does not work there I am not VERY concerned on the other hand I don't want my wife to be faced with undo temptation.
My thought is to ask her if she was temped at all and clarify if the situation was "dangerous" because he may have been attracted to him…. ( I wouldn't say it but …plus….if she is horny 24/7…). I DO trust my wife and have no reason to believe that she would cheat.. At the same time I have no intentions of cheating but, don't think mixing me, booze, a bunch of horny women...and an opportunity to be in a hotel situation....don't think this would be a prudent thing to do either.
I guess my main question are guys that stupid/aggressive that they would go after a women who shows no interest?
Thoughts on this all would be appreciated.
Last week she went to a work-related party for s high-ranking executive that was leaving. For social and political reasons I encouraged her to go. She came home suprisingly early indicating that there was an ex-employee (also pretty high-ranking) that was still friend with many of her colleagues. According to her he was making blatant advances (being overtly touchy) and even suggested that they get a room. She is typically a friendly person and perhaps he misread the signals. The CEO had reserved several rooms for people to stay so they could have a good time and be safe. The guy got so forward that she walked out and grabbed a cab to come home.
On the one hand I am glad that she told me about this and she left to avoid a possible problem. I have to be realistic and accept the fact that she may have been avoiding "temptation" rather than a situation that was "dangerous" as she suggested (she said she was afraid he might rape her). Since the guy does not work there I am not VERY concerned on the other hand I don't want my wife to be faced with undo temptation.
My thought is to ask her if she was temped at all and clarify if the situation was "dangerous" because he may have been attracted to him…. ( I wouldn't say it but …plus….if she is horny 24/7…). I DO trust my wife and have no reason to believe that she would cheat.. At the same time I have no intentions of cheating but, don't think mixing me, booze, a bunch of horny women...and an opportunity to be in a hotel situation....don't think this would be a prudent thing to do either.
I guess my main question are guys that stupid/aggressive that they would go after a women who shows no interest?
Thoughts on this all would be appreciated.
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