This thread came to mind because of the comment below that I read in another thread. It's topic was totally unrelated to this one so I'm leaving the OP anonymous:
"For example, I noticed in hindsight that our sex life improved during her EA for obvious reasons. ... Sometimes I am bothered by the thought that she is thinking about the OM (or turned on by conversations they've had) and the thoughts can be difficult to shake."
This is the closest thing I've ever read (stated by a man) that resembles what I see as being some people's (usually women's) issue with porn.
I'm going to state this very generally (aka. stereotypically) so it's not necessary for anyone to throw in that they don't match the gender roles, it's assumed there are some exceptions.
Men - more stimulated sexually by visual cues and are the primary users of porn.
Women - more stimulated sexually by emotional feeds and are the primary readers of romance novels.
So if you're a man that believes a little porn enhances your sex life with your wife, would you be up for your W having a little EA/romance-novel-reading if it accomplished the same thing? Or vice versa?
"For example, I noticed in hindsight that our sex life improved during her EA for obvious reasons. ... Sometimes I am bothered by the thought that she is thinking about the OM (or turned on by conversations they've had) and the thoughts can be difficult to shake."
This is the closest thing I've ever read (stated by a man) that resembles what I see as being some people's (usually women's) issue with porn.
I'm going to state this very generally (aka. stereotypically) so it's not necessary for anyone to throw in that they don't match the gender roles, it's assumed there are some exceptions.
Men - more stimulated sexually by visual cues and are the primary users of porn.
Women - more stimulated sexually by emotional feeds and are the primary readers of romance novels.
So if you're a man that believes a little porn enhances your sex life with your wife, would you be up for your W having a little EA/romance-novel-reading if it accomplished the same thing? Or vice versa?
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