" I don't like you or want to be around you anymore"
I have never had this said to me but reading some of the posts here and I thought that is what they are really saying. I know some here will say maybe they want to clear their head, calm down and make a rational decision, but when you are finished with something you move away from it and go to the next activity.
When a person wants to leave or get away(space) that usually means they are finished with that activity.
I go to a ballgame when I am tired or the outcome isn't going to change I leave(if the game stinks I leave earlier) I am finished and don't want to be there anymore.
I eat at a restaurant when the meal is over or I am full I leave (after paying haha just like divorce) basically I am finished with that activity.
I guess my reason for this post is most of the stories of people needing space end up with they have already made their decision(many times the A is going full blast) and this is a soft way to say goodbye without a direct confrontation.
I have never had this said to me but reading some of the posts here and I thought that is what they are really saying. I know some here will say maybe they want to clear their head, calm down and make a rational decision, but when you are finished with something you move away from it and go to the next activity.
When a person wants to leave or get away(space) that usually means they are finished with that activity.
I go to a ballgame when I am tired or the outcome isn't going to change I leave(if the game stinks I leave earlier) I am finished and don't want to be there anymore.
I eat at a restaurant when the meal is over or I am full I leave (after paying haha just like divorce) basically I am finished with that activity.
I guess my reason for this post is most of the stories of people needing space end up with they have already made their decision(many times the A is going full blast) and this is a soft way to say goodbye without a direct confrontation.
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