So I have been single for 2 years now, and I have had a few casual things with girls but nothing serious.
After seeing a girl through work a few times and messaging each other most days and getting to know each other for about 2 months (!) we are finally going out on a 'date' tomorrow.
My last proper date with my ex, during the night while having tequila shots, the girl just straight out asked me 'do you want to kiss me?' and well it all started from there, kissed at every opportunity from then on, slept together after 3rd or 4th date and we were together for over 3 years.
This girl is not as forward as that and well I am not sure how friendly and flirty I should be, as I don't want it to be as if we are just friends hanging out, but at the same time I don't want it to look like I only want to get her in bed.
Bearing in mind it has taken a good 2 months of pursuing her, I am not looking for a short-term fling. It's just that from experience I have found that once I have got 'physical' with a girl, it's a lot easier for something serious to then develop.
Im pretty confident when it comes to girls but Im actually feeling a bit nervous...a bit like my first EVER date back in 6th form..
Im gonna do all the usual things...open doors, offer to pay for food/drinks etc, but do I try to get touchy whenever possible to make us comfortable when close? Do I try to go for a kiss at the end of the night?
I guess it's better to try and see how she responds, rather than not try and get dumped in the dreaded friendzone lol right?
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