Not sure I'd want people to find me (and this post) in the future, so anonymous it is.
I've ended a year-long relationship with this girl in my college who I found to be too much to handle for me. She has issues but she won't solve them, so the break up was easy for me, I've had enough, I'm gone-kinda affair. This was at the start of the year. Just to offer an image of my recent 'background'.
I've now, in March, recently met this girl from the January '14 intake for A-levels (I'm from the January '13 intake) and I really like her. Part of me realises that maybe I'm talking to her to fill in the gaps, since I'm a rather studious person and I don't keep many people close to me because of past experiences. But then I realise that maybe I do find myself attracted to her personality, her behaviour, etc.
Problem is, 1. she's busy, so she doesn't reply too frequently. 2. she doesn't really respond to subtly flirtatious messages. There was one time where I asked her if I should be appreciative that she still talks to me a lot despite being so busy, and she never responded to that. 3. she sometimes tends to respond to long messages with an answer to the last line.
I would really love some advice on this. What should I do? How do I find out if she does show mutual affection?
I've ended a year-long relationship with this girl in my college who I found to be too much to handle for me. She has issues but she won't solve them, so the break up was easy for me, I've had enough, I'm gone-kinda affair. This was at the start of the year. Just to offer an image of my recent 'background'.
I've now, in March, recently met this girl from the January '14 intake for A-levels (I'm from the January '13 intake) and I really like her. Part of me realises that maybe I'm talking to her to fill in the gaps, since I'm a rather studious person and I don't keep many people close to me because of past experiences. But then I realise that maybe I do find myself attracted to her personality, her behaviour, etc.
Problem is, 1. she's busy, so she doesn't reply too frequently. 2. she doesn't really respond to subtly flirtatious messages. There was one time where I asked her if I should be appreciative that she still talks to me a lot despite being so busy, and she never responded to that. 3. she sometimes tends to respond to long messages with an answer to the last line.
I would really love some advice on this. What should I do? How do I find out if she does show mutual affection?
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