Yes, I know - we shouldn't base partners on looks... yada yada.
But we live in the real world.
I'm supposed to be going on out with this girl on Monday, and she seems much more into me already, despite our only encounter thus far being a brief one.
Usually it wouldn't be a big deal (for me, dates are just be a bit of fun - nothing too serious), but like I said - she seems quite into me, and she's a really nice girl, and is someone I might have to see again via the mutual friend who introduced us.
If the date goes well, I'd hate to stop things straight after. But if there's not full attraction from my side, I don't know if I should date her. After all I want a partner who I'm very attracted to.
I'm not sure whether this makes me a bit harsh, a bit 'shallow', or whether it's a good enough reason.
Had I known she'd be this into me already, I wouldn't have arranged a date with her. I feel like it's adding a bit of pressure on me, if that makes sense.
She's not a bad looking girl at all, but I'm simply not drawn to her looks like I usually have to be in order to feel something.
Anyone with any experiences on either side?
But we live in the real world.
I'm supposed to be going on out with this girl on Monday, and she seems much more into me already, despite our only encounter thus far being a brief one.
Usually it wouldn't be a big deal (for me, dates are just be a bit of fun - nothing too serious), but like I said - she seems quite into me, and she's a really nice girl, and is someone I might have to see again via the mutual friend who introduced us.
If the date goes well, I'd hate to stop things straight after. But if there's not full attraction from my side, I don't know if I should date her. After all I want a partner who I'm very attracted to.
I'm not sure whether this makes me a bit harsh, a bit 'shallow', or whether it's a good enough reason.
Had I known she'd be this into me already, I wouldn't have arranged a date with her. I feel like it's adding a bit of pressure on me, if that makes sense.
She's not a bad looking girl at all, but I'm simply not drawn to her looks like I usually have to be in order to feel something.
Anyone with any experiences on either side?
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