I'm no prude, I don't dress overly conservative, at all.
I think I usually look pretty good/attractive..in a classy way.
Also, I totally understand that men (and even women) will steal a glance at someone else if they are attractive...or apparently if their 'parts' are half showing or hanging out.
That is no secret to me. I do know it's natural & tough to avoid.
What frustrates me, as a woman/wife, is that husbands or men in general wouldn't want their own woman to dress this way in public, yet they feel free to direct their attention towards those willing to look cheap..cheap thrills are everywhere.
Do you know how damn frustrating that is? Here we are thinking we look hot today- then here comes Ms.T&A.
It gives the impression that they are just as worthy of your attention as we are..like we are equal. With no effort at all they get your attention. When you are with your wife & this happens, it can be pretty embarrassing for us (your wives) and validating to the other woman, that yes, she is pulling your attention, regardless if your wife is there or not. That gives her the power in that moment.
As stupid as this might sound, that woman, in that moment (most likely) feels sorry for the wife. I know this because I have been that woman that another husband or SO has stated at- with the wife on his arm. It's so, so disrespectful.
Today, there were many women who were letting lots show due to a really warm day.
I mean lots. It's crazy.
They are obvious attention *****s & it drives me nuts when guys give that attention that they are seeking.
It's very, very annoying, as a wife, to see your husband get drawn in by cheap looking women, when you invest a good amount of energy in yourself to look really good.
Yes, I know, no matter how good I look, he'll still look & it says nothing about how he feels about me.
That logic doesn't help in that moment when he decides it's cool to be disrespectful toward me by eye-f'ing other women.
This is an obvious vent, so I appreciate those that 'listen.'
I just don't think some men realize what messages they are sending to their wives in these instances.
It somehow just feels unfair to me.
(Obviously, I am not the woman that points out eye-candy to my husband..I wish I was so this didn't bug me: )
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I think I usually look pretty good/attractive..in a classy way.
Also, I totally understand that men (and even women) will steal a glance at someone else if they are attractive...or apparently if their 'parts' are half showing or hanging out.
That is no secret to me. I do know it's natural & tough to avoid.
What frustrates me, as a woman/wife, is that husbands or men in general wouldn't want their own woman to dress this way in public, yet they feel free to direct their attention towards those willing to look cheap..cheap thrills are everywhere.
Do you know how damn frustrating that is? Here we are thinking we look hot today- then here comes Ms.T&A.
It gives the impression that they are just as worthy of your attention as we are..like we are equal. With no effort at all they get your attention. When you are with your wife & this happens, it can be pretty embarrassing for us (your wives) and validating to the other woman, that yes, she is pulling your attention, regardless if your wife is there or not. That gives her the power in that moment.
As stupid as this might sound, that woman, in that moment (most likely) feels sorry for the wife. I know this because I have been that woman that another husband or SO has stated at- with the wife on his arm. It's so, so disrespectful.
Today, there were many women who were letting lots show due to a really warm day.
I mean lots. It's crazy.
They are obvious attention *****s & it drives me nuts when guys give that attention that they are seeking.
It's very, very annoying, as a wife, to see your husband get drawn in by cheap looking women, when you invest a good amount of energy in yourself to look really good.
Yes, I know, no matter how good I look, he'll still look & it says nothing about how he feels about me.
That logic doesn't help in that moment when he decides it's cool to be disrespectful toward me by eye-f'ing other women.
This is an obvious vent, so I appreciate those that 'listen.'
I just don't think some men realize what messages they are sending to their wives in these instances.
It somehow just feels unfair to me.
(Obviously, I am not the woman that points out eye-candy to my husband..I wish I was so this didn't bug me: )
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