Perception is another important element needed in an good relationship.perception is away of regarding,understanding,or interpreting something through the senses.perception,impression and reality are three different things you have to understand when it comes to a relationship.
Impression is an idea,feeling,or opinion about something or someone or it can also be an imitation of a person or thing,and reality is the state of thing,as they actually exist.Yes we all believe that first impression matters,yes it matters but not always and when it comes to relationships it doesn't matter that much,because when reality sets in you totally have a different point of view of the person you are with in the relationship.
But when you perceive rightly it gives you the right impression of who you are with,i have noticed that in a relationship at the first stage,which is the first romance when you both met newly,things moves fine at that stage,but when reality sets in that is when you see that the person you are with gave you the wrong impression of whom they really are,and because you didn't perceive rightly to know the right impression,this can make the relationship not to fully it circle.
For you to be able to perceive your partner or other people rightly,you should stop writing people off with their first impression,this is how some companies have lost so many hard working people because their first impression maybe that they got it wrong for the first start,and that will give employer the impression that they won't get others right without knowing that human beings are bound to make mistakes in life.you have to give them a second chance to prove themselves again.Talmud said "that we do not see the world as it is.we see the world as we are"
So don't just write people off with their first impression,also when it comes to relationship you do write your partner or someone to be with their first impression,and with this sometimes you loss the best partner that you ever imagined or prayed for,and that could make you to end up with the wrong partner,i have this friend he always tell me that he likes fair girls,and that if his girlfriend is not fair that he won't marry her,this could be a wrong impression but he doesn't know because the best partner he could ever imagine being with,could be a dark lady,but he wrote off dark skin ladies saying that he must marry fair once.(am not saying that fair ladies or girls are not lovable or are not good to marry)but what am pointing out here is that the right perception gives you the right person you are with or about to be with.
Another way of perceiving rightly is to stop generalization,for example you say, all girls are the same,all fair girls are bad,and so on.When you do this you won't have enough room for perception,because when you say "all fair girls are bad"you have blinded your senses to perceive that there are so many fair girls that are more caring and good to be with than dark skin once and also you will have the wrong impression.perception gose beyond the physical looks.
Lack of good perception is another thing that causes divorce in marriages or breakups in relationships today,because we always go with the first impression and looks, and when the reality sets in,it gives us a wrong perception of whom your partner really is,understand and make sure that the impression you have towards someone gose with their reality for a healthier relationship. :)
Impression is an idea,feeling,or opinion about something or someone or it can also be an imitation of a person or thing,and reality is the state of thing,as they actually exist.Yes we all believe that first impression matters,yes it matters but not always and when it comes to relationships it doesn't matter that much,because when reality sets in you totally have a different point of view of the person you are with in the relationship.
But when you perceive rightly it gives you the right impression of who you are with,i have noticed that in a relationship at the first stage,which is the first romance when you both met newly,things moves fine at that stage,but when reality sets in that is when you see that the person you are with gave you the wrong impression of whom they really are,and because you didn't perceive rightly to know the right impression,this can make the relationship not to fully it circle.
For you to be able to perceive your partner or other people rightly,you should stop writing people off with their first impression,this is how some companies have lost so many hard working people because their first impression maybe that they got it wrong for the first start,and that will give employer the impression that they won't get others right without knowing that human beings are bound to make mistakes in life.you have to give them a second chance to prove themselves again.Talmud said "that we do not see the world as it is.we see the world as we are"
So don't just write people off with their first impression,also when it comes to relationship you do write your partner or someone to be with their first impression,and with this sometimes you loss the best partner that you ever imagined or prayed for,and that could make you to end up with the wrong partner,i have this friend he always tell me that he likes fair girls,and that if his girlfriend is not fair that he won't marry her,this could be a wrong impression but he doesn't know because the best partner he could ever imagine being with,could be a dark lady,but he wrote off dark skin ladies saying that he must marry fair once.(am not saying that fair ladies or girls are not lovable or are not good to marry)but what am pointing out here is that the right perception gives you the right person you are with or about to be with.
Another way of perceiving rightly is to stop generalization,for example you say, all girls are the same,all fair girls are bad,and so on.When you do this you won't have enough room for perception,because when you say "all fair girls are bad"you have blinded your senses to perceive that there are so many fair girls that are more caring and good to be with than dark skin once and also you will have the wrong impression.perception gose beyond the physical looks.
Lack of good perception is another thing that causes divorce in marriages or breakups in relationships today,because we always go with the first impression and looks, and when the reality sets in,it gives us a wrong perception of whom your partner really is,understand and make sure that the impression you have towards someone gose with their reality for a healthier relationship. :)
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