Hi everyone, first post here so please be nice :L (although I feel I don't deserve it)
I've been in a relationship with a girl I met at uni for around three months now, and honestly she has been absolutely perfect in every way imaginable. However, I've felt the 'spark' disappear alarmingly quickly and I just haven't been excited to see her. I've had no real desire to get intimate with her for a few weeks now either (We haven't had sex yet but I've done things to her, nothing the other way not sure how much detail I'm allowed to give/don't really think any more information than that is necessary). I feel emotionally attached but nothing physical any more, and have probably been seeing if the feelings will come back a week or so longer than I should have waited for. I know that the initial excitement doesn't last forever, but not to this extent and not so quickly.
I just want to stress that this has nothing to do with not having the chance to have sex with her, I just feel I don't want to any more and that my instinct is telling me to end things whereas before I lost my feelings for her I was admittedly a little frustrated. I fully respect that she has wanted to wait.
Anyway, after realising that the whole post until this point has been me justifying to myself why to end the relationship I'm just asking for some advice on how to go about it. The one person I've finished with before (normally the other way around!) I've been told I was a bit insensitive about (unintentionally) by her friends so I thought I would ask for some opinions and thoughts on the matter here. All I know is that it has to be in person, she deserves that at least, just to save you from mentioning it :)
Thanks!
I've been in a relationship with a girl I met at uni for around three months now, and honestly she has been absolutely perfect in every way imaginable. However, I've felt the 'spark' disappear alarmingly quickly and I just haven't been excited to see her. I've had no real desire to get intimate with her for a few weeks now either (We haven't had sex yet but I've done things to her, nothing the other way not sure how much detail I'm allowed to give/don't really think any more information than that is necessary). I feel emotionally attached but nothing physical any more, and have probably been seeing if the feelings will come back a week or so longer than I should have waited for. I know that the initial excitement doesn't last forever, but not to this extent and not so quickly.
I just want to stress that this has nothing to do with not having the chance to have sex with her, I just feel I don't want to any more and that my instinct is telling me to end things whereas before I lost my feelings for her I was admittedly a little frustrated. I fully respect that she has wanted to wait.
Anyway, after realising that the whole post until this point has been me justifying to myself why to end the relationship I'm just asking for some advice on how to go about it. The one person I've finished with before (normally the other way around!) I've been told I was a bit insensitive about (unintentionally) by her friends so I thought I would ask for some opinions and thoughts on the matter here. All I know is that it has to be in person, she deserves that at least, just to save you from mentioning it :)
Thanks!
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