Hey guys looking for some advice. I met my girlfriend at uni, everything has been really good, and I genuinely love this girl. I even see our relationship going so far as marriage. However my problem is that this is the first girl to truly fall in love with me and talk about marriage with me and for some reason it scares me. I constantly have questions in my head saying 'are you sure she's the one for you'.
The fact that I've had these fears makes me question if I actually do love her or not because she never has these fears. This has caused so many problems for us and she's always overcome them, she's such an amazing girlfriend and she really doesn't deserve all this.
So my question is how can I overcome this? Is this just me being in uni and wanting to explore?
Worth noting that this is my first proper girlfriend and that might be part of the anxiety.
Also I have to point out that I generally do love this girl I don't want to break up with her I just wanna overcome this anxiety.
The fact that I've had these fears makes me question if I actually do love her or not because she never has these fears. This has caused so many problems for us and she's always overcome them, she's such an amazing girlfriend and she really doesn't deserve all this.
So my question is how can I overcome this? Is this just me being in uni and wanting to explore?
Worth noting that this is my first proper girlfriend and that might be part of the anxiety.
Also I have to point out that I generally do love this girl I don't want to break up with her I just wanna overcome this anxiety.
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