quick backstory - been divorced 2 years...have a wonderful, beautiful, happy 7 year old daughter together and I have 50/50 custody. Met a woman a year ago, started dating and "unfortunately" she got pregnant. I say "unfortunately" because we were careless, the timing was not right, we weren't married yet, etc...but the baby is very loved and my girlfriend and I are doing everything we can to make it work...among many challenges though is my ex's insistence on having a long interaction with my gf and the baby...she wants to come to any get togethers we have, is always saying she wants to go to dinner, etc. My ex and gf have met briefly during drop off's etc but the tension is palpable and it's very awkward for me. After 15 years of living with my ex, I know she doesn't really care about me/gf... she wants to pass judgment and criticize the house, gf, etc...the divorce was not friendly at all, it was brutal and my gf wants nothing to do with the ex...th is has now put my daughter in the middle of something that she should not have to bear witness too. Her mother keeps telling her, "I'd love to come visit you at daddy's and meet your brother...all I have to do is be invited, remember, he's only your half brother because he didn't come from your mommy"...very passive aggressive .... thanks, welcome comments and sorry for so long a post
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