Hi guys,
Tomorrow I'll have know the guy I'm seeing for 6months. I lost myvirginity to him (not straight away) & have opened up to him more thanI do most people. I also feel like he's opened up to me a lot too (especiallyso in the last month, I feel like we are so much more emotionally open with eachother this year)
He said from start that he liked me and after denying how I felt formonths (and not speaking during jan exam period) I called him up& told him the same -I like him a lot more than I thought, I've hatednot speaking to him and that if he didn't feel the same to tell me; hesaid he did.
he's said things such as 'I'm startingto like you too much' 'you're my girl' and (apologizing after a fight) 'I wantyou to be my girlfriend' but what's stopping that?
I want to be with him & as much as it would pain me for us to loose contact(I consider him to be a good friend as well) I don't want to be friends with benefitsor end up strung along and emotionally hurt continuing something that isn'tgoing to happen.
I'd never force him to ask me, nor to I want to give him an 'ultimatum'but then what can I do? And do you think it's possible to remain friends ifthings don't progress to the next stage and I have to end how it is now?
Thanks x
Tomorrow I'll have know the guy I'm seeing for 6months. I lost myvirginity to him (not straight away) & have opened up to him more thanI do most people. I also feel like he's opened up to me a lot too (especiallyso in the last month, I feel like we are so much more emotionally open with eachother this year)
He said from start that he liked me and after denying how I felt formonths (and not speaking during jan exam period) I called him up& told him the same -I like him a lot more than I thought, I've hatednot speaking to him and that if he didn't feel the same to tell me; hesaid he did.
he's said things such as 'I'm startingto like you too much' 'you're my girl' and (apologizing after a fight) 'I wantyou to be my girlfriend' but what's stopping that?
I want to be with him & as much as it would pain me for us to loose contact(I consider him to be a good friend as well) I don't want to be friends with benefitsor end up strung along and emotionally hurt continuing something that isn'tgoing to happen.
I'd never force him to ask me, nor to I want to give him an 'ultimatum'but then what can I do? And do you think it's possible to remain friends ifthings don't progress to the next stage and I have to end how it is now?
Thanks x
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