Okay here is the story and I am confused about my feelings and what to do.
My wife and I have been married 30 years. Last year I was sick and dealt with some cancer and chemo treatments. I know I was not the husband I should have been in the bedroom at the time and my wife was always there for me and helped me through this time.
But at the same time she started going to the gym every morning. Then she started dressing nicer, sexier even going to the grocery store dressed sexy, where she use to just wear shorts or sweat pants.
She also started casually mentioning a guy at her gym that kept telling her how fit she was getting and things like that. She was starting to mention him a couple times a week. I never said anything I just listened to her.
All of a sudden one day I saw her getting out of the shower and she had totally shaved her pubic hair. I had asked many times over the years and she never would. She was wearing more skirts and sundresses when going out.
It started taking her an hour or more longer than normal to go to the grocery store and some days she would come home from work an hour or two late, always said they got busy.
So one Saturday I followed her when she left to go to the grocery store. I was suspicious because she got cleaned up put on this kind of short blue jean skirt, not something a lot of women in their 50's wear and a top with no bra.
She went to this park by the lake. I stayed back and hid in the trees. A few minutes a car pulled up and this much younger man in his early 30's got into her SUV.
I waited about 15 minutes and walked up closer. I saw them both naked in the back. I know I should have done something but I just left and went back home.
Later that evening I confronted her. We had this long talk and fight. She admitted that things were tough between us at the time and this guy was always complimenting her and one thing led to another and it was only physical she just needed attention.
Now here is the confused part. I started asking details about it and making her tell me the details. I started getting aroused by it and after awhile I told her I understood and if that is what she needed to continue, but she said no it was a mistake.
Now she will tell me details about their sex while we are having sex and I find it so arousing and always want to hear more. She tells me the things he did to her and about the size of his penis and things.
It has been some of the best sex we have had. I enjoy it but wonder am I less of a man and husband for condoning this and using it for my own arousal.
My wife and I have been married 30 years. Last year I was sick and dealt with some cancer and chemo treatments. I know I was not the husband I should have been in the bedroom at the time and my wife was always there for me and helped me through this time.
But at the same time she started going to the gym every morning. Then she started dressing nicer, sexier even going to the grocery store dressed sexy, where she use to just wear shorts or sweat pants.
She also started casually mentioning a guy at her gym that kept telling her how fit she was getting and things like that. She was starting to mention him a couple times a week. I never said anything I just listened to her.
All of a sudden one day I saw her getting out of the shower and she had totally shaved her pubic hair. I had asked many times over the years and she never would. She was wearing more skirts and sundresses when going out.
It started taking her an hour or more longer than normal to go to the grocery store and some days she would come home from work an hour or two late, always said they got busy.
So one Saturday I followed her when she left to go to the grocery store. I was suspicious because she got cleaned up put on this kind of short blue jean skirt, not something a lot of women in their 50's wear and a top with no bra.
She went to this park by the lake. I stayed back and hid in the trees. A few minutes a car pulled up and this much younger man in his early 30's got into her SUV.
I waited about 15 minutes and walked up closer. I saw them both naked in the back. I know I should have done something but I just left and went back home.
Later that evening I confronted her. We had this long talk and fight. She admitted that things were tough between us at the time and this guy was always complimenting her and one thing led to another and it was only physical she just needed attention.
Now here is the confused part. I started asking details about it and making her tell me the details. I started getting aroused by it and after awhile I told her I understood and if that is what she needed to continue, but she said no it was a mistake.
Now she will tell me details about their sex while we are having sex and I find it so arousing and always want to hear more. She tells me the things he did to her and about the size of his penis and things.
It has been some of the best sex we have had. I enjoy it but wonder am I less of a man and husband for condoning this and using it for my own arousal.
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