We went to counseling after his EA. He made a whole bunch of promises about respecting me and what I say instead of blowing me off like he has in the past. Then he deliberately does something I've asked him not to do.
Sometimes he sleeps in the other room because of his deviated septum if I can't sleep because he's loud. We have discussed several times that he needs to leave the door open to the guest room while he's in there to make sure he can hear our son wake up in the middle of the night (happens often) so he can help me. So last night he goes to the guest room (without me asking him, which I thought was weird but could have been because he knew he was stopped up). Our son wakes up, I go in there for 45 minutes and just get back into bed and he wakes again. I'm wondering where the hell my husband is because usually he's the one to get up. I walk to the door and-of course! It's totally shut and he can't hear anything! He did this knowing I asked him not to and his excuse was "well I thought I would be able to hear him anyway." I'm so sick of this! He'll do things to make me think he really is trying and then he'll completely disregard what I say because he wants to do what he wants to do. IS this even real R? It's making me crazy!
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Sometimes he sleeps in the other room because of his deviated septum if I can't sleep because he's loud. We have discussed several times that he needs to leave the door open to the guest room while he's in there to make sure he can hear our son wake up in the middle of the night (happens often) so he can help me. So last night he goes to the guest room (without me asking him, which I thought was weird but could have been because he knew he was stopped up). Our son wakes up, I go in there for 45 minutes and just get back into bed and he wakes again. I'm wondering where the hell my husband is because usually he's the one to get up. I walk to the door and-of course! It's totally shut and he can't hear anything! He did this knowing I asked him not to and his excuse was "well I thought I would be able to hear him anyway." I'm so sick of this! He'll do things to make me think he really is trying and then he'll completely disregard what I say because he wants to do what he wants to do. IS this even real R? It's making me crazy!
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