My husband of 29 years has decided to leave. He went right to the divorce word. I could see he was hurting and asked if we could just separate for a while and see if we could fix this. He said it wouldn't work. He needs to find himself and he isn't in love with me anymore. Of course, never going through this before I begged him to stay and from what I now understand I shouldn't have done that. But my heart was breaking and I would have done anything for him to stay or at least consider a separation.
He has moved out and I am leaving him alone. Although I am dying inside and the only reason I'm sort of keeping it together is for our daughter.
Some of the family think he is having a mid-life crisis. His mother passed away last year (his father is also no longer living) and he had a mini stroke about 6 months ago. He has recovered from that physically but I'm not sure about emotionally.
I just don't know what to do. Is there even a chance for us? Has anyone gone through this and been able to put it back together or am I just fooling myself.
He has moved out and I am leaving him alone. Although I am dying inside and the only reason I'm sort of keeping it together is for our daughter.
Some of the family think he is having a mid-life crisis. His mother passed away last year (his father is also no longer living) and he had a mini stroke about 6 months ago. He has recovered from that physically but I'm not sure about emotionally.
I just don't know what to do. Is there even a chance for us? Has anyone gone through this and been able to put it back together or am I just fooling myself.
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