Ok, I might be different than most after reading some of the posts here. I have a general feeling that freedom is love, to me it shows trust. So I give my wife a lot of room, and even try to convince her to go out with friends. I have given her some guy friends to talk to and told her if she keeps it online it's all good and we can use it as pillow talk to keep things hot in bed. All of this comes off to her as me being lose and not taking the marriage serious.
She on the other hand gives me very little breathing room, I almost feel untrusted, and she sometimes states she wants a smaller mattress so we can stay close together and in the car she constantly has to sit as close as possible to me. All of which is fine, I like the attention but sometimes I want to come up for air. A little freedom would go along ways, matter of fact I would feel more loving to her if she offered me some freedom, and she is probably craving after that loving I would naturally feel.
I don't know how to go about setting this up without causing major waves. Any ideas?
She on the other hand gives me very little breathing room, I almost feel untrusted, and she sometimes states she wants a smaller mattress so we can stay close together and in the car she constantly has to sit as close as possible to me. All of which is fine, I like the attention but sometimes I want to come up for air. A little freedom would go along ways, matter of fact I would feel more loving to her if she offered me some freedom, and she is probably craving after that loving I would naturally feel.
I don't know how to go about setting this up without causing major waves. Any ideas?
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