I have a friend who recently went through a divorce and my friend has opened up with me about how his sex life was with his wife. She had been married once before and he was a virgin when they got married. Unfortunately, they both met through me, but I assure you, I did not hook them up, nor wanted them to.
Anyways, sex was once a month for him...on her terms...you know, during the time just before her period starts when most women are highly sexual. My friend could NEVER see her naked! Never in the shower, never undressing! He could NEVER see her vagina either! He said in his 6 years of marriage, he saw her vagina twice! On one occasion, he asked her nicely if he could see her vagina and his wife just pulled down her pants and said, "There, take a look." She said it with such disdain. Sex ALWAYS had to be in the dark and she changed in the bathroom and always had a nighty on and would get into bed.
Now the sex part. She would get there really quick, as well as my friend, but the entire process was about rules and regulations. He had to lay in bed as still as a statue. Any sudden movements and she would get upset. He could NEVER fondle her breasts, lick her, touch her in any sexual way, other than "her" getting off on his male anatomy. She ALWAYS had to be on top and it was ALWAYS the same way and the same rules and regulations. He could NEVER make any noises too! The only thing that sounds uncharacteristic of her is, if she got there first, she would always make sure he got there as well.
This started from day one on the honeymoon. Of course, since they did not have sex before marriage, nor communicated with each other about preferences, rules, and regulations, he had no idea what he was getting himself into. Believe you me, I want after my friend and begged him not to get marry to this gal. Live and learn I guess.
Never the less, I have tried researching date online about all of these issues this lady has. I have heard some of them before, but as many as my friend describes sounds unreal. What is the psychological issue she is having? My friend and I are pretty sure she has never been raped or molested before. Her first marriage ended by her leaving him and the same goes for my friend. She just got sick of not having everything the way she wanted it. Yes, she is a very very selfish individual, but these sexual hang ups have got to be something very psychological. Does anyone have a glue?
Anyways, sex was once a month for him...on her terms...you know, during the time just before her period starts when most women are highly sexual. My friend could NEVER see her naked! Never in the shower, never undressing! He could NEVER see her vagina either! He said in his 6 years of marriage, he saw her vagina twice! On one occasion, he asked her nicely if he could see her vagina and his wife just pulled down her pants and said, "There, take a look." She said it with such disdain. Sex ALWAYS had to be in the dark and she changed in the bathroom and always had a nighty on and would get into bed.
Now the sex part. She would get there really quick, as well as my friend, but the entire process was about rules and regulations. He had to lay in bed as still as a statue. Any sudden movements and she would get upset. He could NEVER fondle her breasts, lick her, touch her in any sexual way, other than "her" getting off on his male anatomy. She ALWAYS had to be on top and it was ALWAYS the same way and the same rules and regulations. He could NEVER make any noises too! The only thing that sounds uncharacteristic of her is, if she got there first, she would always make sure he got there as well.
This started from day one on the honeymoon. Of course, since they did not have sex before marriage, nor communicated with each other about preferences, rules, and regulations, he had no idea what he was getting himself into. Believe you me, I want after my friend and begged him not to get marry to this gal. Live and learn I guess.
Never the less, I have tried researching date online about all of these issues this lady has. I have heard some of them before, but as many as my friend describes sounds unreal. What is the psychological issue she is having? My friend and I are pretty sure she has never been raped or molested before. Her first marriage ended by her leaving him and the same goes for my friend. She just got sick of not having everything the way she wanted it. Yes, she is a very very selfish individual, but these sexual hang ups have got to be something very psychological. Does anyone have a glue?
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