I have been married for about 2 1/2 yrs now and have a 1 1/2 yr old son. I truly and deeply love my husband. I have a caring husband as I am working he tries to help me with the house hold chores. His parents are also living with us and my husband tries to maintain balance between his responsibilities as a son and as a husband to ensure that things remain cordial at home. The only problem is that he shares his feelings/opinion only when he sees a problem between me and his parents otherwise he rarely shares his feelings, daily activities, problems with me. If he sometimes goes for drinks after office hours he only tells me he is going out with colleagues and never the names. whereas I am very transparent I like to share each and every detail of my day with him.
This makes me at times suspicious of him and sometimes I feel very depressed I fell that I do not make an interesting or compatible spouse and he may cheat on me if he finds a more suitable partner.
I have shared my discomfort with him due to his uncommunicative behaviour but he says that is the way his personality is and he cannot change. sometimes I feel i dont know consciously or unconsciously he is phobic of communicating his feelings as he thinks it may have some negative consequences or its safe not to communicate. I try very hard to make him comfortable by not asking counter questions, not reacting but it just does not make any difference. I fail to understand how can you love someone and not have the urge to talk to that person.
Please help me soon I feel really depressed and I a not able to come out of it and dont want to share my feelings with any known person.
This makes me at times suspicious of him and sometimes I feel very depressed I fell that I do not make an interesting or compatible spouse and he may cheat on me if he finds a more suitable partner.
I have shared my discomfort with him due to his uncommunicative behaviour but he says that is the way his personality is and he cannot change. sometimes I feel i dont know consciously or unconsciously he is phobic of communicating his feelings as he thinks it may have some negative consequences or its safe not to communicate. I try very hard to make him comfortable by not asking counter questions, not reacting but it just does not make any difference. I fail to understand how can you love someone and not have the urge to talk to that person.
Please help me soon I feel really depressed and I a not able to come out of it and dont want to share my feelings with any known person.
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