I found out a few weeks ago that my husband of 25 years had cheated on me with a woman that he had met on a poker forum site.
They go on twice yearly poker events and he first slept with her in the Sept of 2011 at one of these events. They then met a couple of more times after that, one of which he stayed at her house all night. She then split with him around the end of November, saying she had met someone else and wanted to make a go of it.
They continued to chat to each other via fb and the poker forum over the next couple of years and in the last month the chat started to become sexual and various explicit photos had been shared between them.
My husband has told me he is truly sorry and shown me everything that on his fb and forum. He has deleted this person as a friend and has agreed not to contact her in anyway.
He wants us to reconcile and stay together promising not to ever do anything to hurt me again.
Some days I seem to cope with everything really well and other times I just fall to pieces. I get the feeling that my husband thinks I should have started to get over this by now as the affair was two years ago, although the photos and sexual chat has been more recent.
Has anybody else found their self in my position and did your husband cheat again or did you reconcile and move forward with your marriage
Thanks for letting me ramble on
They go on twice yearly poker events and he first slept with her in the Sept of 2011 at one of these events. They then met a couple of more times after that, one of which he stayed at her house all night. She then split with him around the end of November, saying she had met someone else and wanted to make a go of it.
They continued to chat to each other via fb and the poker forum over the next couple of years and in the last month the chat started to become sexual and various explicit photos had been shared between them.
My husband has told me he is truly sorry and shown me everything that on his fb and forum. He has deleted this person as a friend and has agreed not to contact her in anyway.
He wants us to reconcile and stay together promising not to ever do anything to hurt me again.
Some days I seem to cope with everything really well and other times I just fall to pieces. I get the feeling that my husband thinks I should have started to get over this by now as the affair was two years ago, although the photos and sexual chat has been more recent.
Has anybody else found their self in my position and did your husband cheat again or did you reconcile and move forward with your marriage
Thanks for letting me ramble on
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