Is there a difference in the treatment of men who complain about sexless marriage vs women who complain about sexless marriage?
Maybe not as much here, but pretty much everywhere else.
When men complain it is their fault, and that they are nagging too much. And why are they being so needy and demanding.Men also don't talk about the emotional effect it has on their lives and the consequences they live with.
Whereas there is a plethora of well explained effects that a sexless marriage has on women, emotionally and otherwise. And how the man is not putting forth the effort and carrying out his responsibility and is abusing the wife (by neglect) and it is essentially the man's fault.
I don't know, something about this is affecting me. Kind of like it doesn't really matter as a man how I feel and so I should not bother. It's not a matter that I should have my feeling re sexlessness validated but I am much much more likely to just keep my feelings hidden and not talk about anything because they actually would not matter anyway, in marriage or otherwise. Just that I have to get on with things, not that my bitterness goes away. I don't want to be a curmudgeon as I age but rather be truly happy within myself. Truly happy, spiritually and otherwise.
Anyway, this was a bit of a ramble......
Oh yeh another thing. I really really don't want to say sorry anymore in my relationship. Particularly for the way I feel and my subsequent actions. Ok that was venting. :rolleyes:
Maybe not as much here, but pretty much everywhere else.
When men complain it is their fault, and that they are nagging too much. And why are they being so needy and demanding.Men also don't talk about the emotional effect it has on their lives and the consequences they live with.
Whereas there is a plethora of well explained effects that a sexless marriage has on women, emotionally and otherwise. And how the man is not putting forth the effort and carrying out his responsibility and is abusing the wife (by neglect) and it is essentially the man's fault.
I don't know, something about this is affecting me. Kind of like it doesn't really matter as a man how I feel and so I should not bother. It's not a matter that I should have my feeling re sexlessness validated but I am much much more likely to just keep my feelings hidden and not talk about anything because they actually would not matter anyway, in marriage or otherwise. Just that I have to get on with things, not that my bitterness goes away. I don't want to be a curmudgeon as I age but rather be truly happy within myself. Truly happy, spiritually and otherwise.
Anyway, this was a bit of a ramble......
Oh yeh another thing. I really really don't want to say sorry anymore in my relationship. Particularly for the way I feel and my subsequent actions. Ok that was venting. :rolleyes:
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