Marriage hangin by a thread

I came to this forum as I am desperate. My wife and I have been together for 9 years. We met and it seemed like destiny, she was from my country of origin (Eastern Europe) and we felt we belonged together. I married her so she could stay in the country, I supported her for over a year and paid off all her debts overseas. We started with nothing but together have built a great life financially and in this regard things are getting better. She has always had a difficult character and is very dominating, stresses out easily and goes right of over the most trivial things. Throughout the years I have always stood by her and supported her when she had endometriosis, we hardly had sex in a period of around a year. During that time I never cheated but my only release was porn and she was very upset. I explained I need a release once in a while and I believe this is better than cheating, so over time she kind of accepted it. After the operation to have the condition fixed our sex life resumed but was never regular from that point. I try to be the best husband I can, I cook more than she does, I clean the house 50-50, I run a successful business, I look after myself so I'm very fit, I don't smoke or drink, I don't go out clubbing or drinking with friends. Every day I send her texts saying how much I love her. I'm affectionate and hug and kiss her constantly. She does the books for the business as well as doing a regular job and she always throws it in my face how much she works and that I have time for everything. I told her I can get an accountant to do it to take the pressure of her but she takes it as criticism of her work. She puts me down, criticises me all the time and recently she told me that I'm holding her back from doing what she wants to. This killed me as I have always supported her and gave in to all major decisions just to keep her happy. It was the last straw I packed my stuff and moved to a little room I have at the back of my business. When she texted me I told her I will only come back if we go to marriage counselling but she refuses. I know I am a good husband and I think she knows that she will be in the wrong and will need to take responsibility in front of a third party. I have been away 4 days and she has not contacted me. What should I do????

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