My ex says I ruined her life?

My ex and I had a very messy breakup. Getting back together, splitting up, sleeping with each other etc. etc. We then tried friends because we genuinely did care for each other, and wanted to be part of each others lives. We both went on dates and were OK with each other dating. Then things turned nasty and we fell out. We tried to be friends again, but it didn't work as other friends got involved. My ex says she's now on medication for anxiety, says she can't trust me anymore - yet won't say why - and can't trust anyone else. Says I'm ruining her relationship with her current boyfriend - although her friends have said it's a rebound after me - and she keeps having anxiety attacks, and says she never wants to see me again because I ruined her life. I graduate in a a couple of months, she has another year at university, though I live locally to my university. I still want to be a part of her life, yet for some reason she hates me. I can't talk her round. She's becoming closed off and I'm worried for her. I suffer from anxiety as well, and know what she's going through so offered help, and she just rejects it. I don't want her back, I just want her to be OK, and were we can be friends. Anyone got any ideas? All this stress of what she's saying is screwing me up when I have my dissertation to do and setting off MY anxiety. I need it resolved.

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