is this a threat?

my wife issued said to me today as a statement which sounded to me more like a threat. The words were: "If I want then you will neither have me(i.e. her i.e. my wife), nor kids nor any money/real estate you(i.e. me i.e. her husband) have" Background is my wife's parents constantly make her feel like a princess and support her and she seems to be a liar who stokes feelings in her parents against me by telling lies/miscommunicating (know that cause I have overheard her talking many times on the phone with her friends and parents). Today we ended a major fight going on for the last 1-2 weeks over money and sex. she basically had vowed she would'nt give me any sex until I got a new central cooling system installed. my position was that I would if she would give me my money which I had put in her bank account (earlier I blindly trusted her and did many other things like this including adding her in an expensive real estate). She flatly refused both sex and money. Today she backed off when I said a few days back that then there is no point us staying together. She has been physically, verbally and emotionally abusing me. (physical started happening in the last one month) I had done 7 months of marriage improvement after reading His needs her needs by Willar harley from my side. She had been uninterested. Then her parents jumped in and spoilt all the progress again by interfering and instigating her. My question is : her statement - .My current understanding is since it is not legally possible for her to remove me fully from my wealth (reasonable) and nor from my children. I asked her whether she was talking about legal or illegal ways and she did not tell. Does it mean she could slip poison into my food or something like that? I had overheard her saying this on the phone to her friend as well. Where I live one sided divorces cannot happen. So what did she mean? so was it a threat and what did she mean?:confused: It did to me to my life. (as i mentioned in a diff thread earlier she seems to have symptoms of BPD or NPD with her mother as the codependent mollycoddler. She has been passive aggressive throughout the marriage)

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