Didn't think R would be so hard :( HELP!

Husband has been back a week (he was only gone a week...) and the first few days were great, but we are slipping back into our old ways. It is so hard to trust him and he is starting to make me feel like I can't... BLA We are both trying to forget the hurt and move forward, but it is easier said then done. My brain is trying to forget, but my heart is taking a slower time catching up. I guess you just feel like it shouldn't be so hard to make a marriage work and be good, but it does... Does anyone have an stories or encouragement they can offer with R?

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