Beta vs Alpha in my marriage

I talk a lot about being more alpha and there's a reason for that. I'll give you the contrast between me as more beta and me as more alpha in my marriage.... In the beginning of my marriage when I was too beta: -I'm a neat freak, and my wife is lazy. Therefore, I did most of the cleaning in the house. -We used to have sex often before our child, but after our child, our sex pretty much died for a year or so. She said she didn't want to have sex really anymore. -She would go out and party at night with her friends often times without me. -She would always raise her voice and argue with me about things, almost to the point of disrespecting me. -She would get mad when I watched porn. She'd try to control me. Serious stuff happened in my marriage, and then I manned up a bit. Now, with me being more alpha: -We both clean together once a week. She takes care of our toddler mainly, while I sit and watch TV. She's been cooking more as well. -We have sex 3 times a week. She knows if we don't have sex, then that is unacceptable in our marriage. -She never disrespects me by going out late at night with her friends without me. We go together, unless I give her permission to go out with her friends. -She doesn't disrespect me or raise her voice with me as much anymore. I tell her to lower her voice when she does and make her realize she shouldn't talk to me like that. -I watch porn sometimes and she doesn't give me crap about it anymore. -I've told her I'll make the big decisions in our marriage financially and otherwise. She agrees. She's been a good girl these days. I love how my marriage is going now. I know some may not like all the things I said, but this is why I believe in being more alpha.

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